Today, refers to ADDITIVES, man-made or other ingredients not naturally present but added with the intention of preventing spoilage and to improve the product shelf life for greater sales and profitability, KEEPING THE PRODUCT FRESH and in good condition.
「Moral intent of having a gusher, rubbing actions, fluid flows with no limit」applies to youthful masturbation on a daily basis that will KEEP THE PRODUCT FRESH and in good condition. Male masturbation and prostate cancer:「Two relatively large studies of this question, reported in 2003 and 2004, yielded good news for sexually active men: high ejaculation frequency seemed to protect against prostate cancer.
As part of Harvard's Health Professionals Follow-up Study, 29,342 men between the ages of 46 and 81 reported their average number of ejaculations per month in young adulthood (ages 20–29), in mid-life (ages 40–49), and in the most recent year. Ejaculations included sexual intercourse, nocturnal emissions, and masturbation. Study participants also provided comprehensive health and lifestyle data every two years from 1992 to 2000. The scientists found that men who ejaculated 21 or more times a month enjoyed a 33% lower risk of prostate cancer compared with men who reported four to seven ejaculations a month throughout their lifetimes.
An Australian study of 2,338 men came to a similar conclusion. In all, men who averaged 4.6 to seven ejaculations a week were 36% less likely to be diagnosed with prostate cancer before the age of 70 than men who ejaculated less than 2.3 times a week on average. The study found no connection between prostate cancer and the number of sex partners. (An earlier study, however, found that men who had sex with 30 or more women were two to three times more likely to develop prostate cancer than men with only one partner.)」
[ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC387502/ 2020-12-30 ] …but not all the pundits agree…we say,「it can't hurt to try」
[ https://www.fatherly.com/health/more-sex-ejaculation-masturbation-lower-prostate-cancer-risk ]
[ https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/prostate-cancer/expert-answers/prostate-cancer/faq-20057800 ]
It's a mighty poor dog that won't wag its own tail.
In addition to selfies, PULL CLOSER TO ONESELF also applies to adding to one's harem, adding young concubines or service providers,「fluid flowing with gratitude after receiving a child」and flowing into the child, most likely on a daily basis. Shaman-made alterations not naturally present but added with the intention of preventing spoilage and to improve the product shelf life for greater sales and profitability:「Viewing women as commodities [see 品] was also made customary from Song Dynasty (960 - 1279) forward, both in the suddenly expanded labor market and within relationships. Men could sell their female kin to slavery or prostitution, and frequently did.」
[ https://www.zum.de/whkmla/sp/0910/hersheys/hersheys5.html 2011-04-05 ]
「In traditional Chinese medicine, there has never been a mental disease called pedophilia (or an equivalent term), or homosexuality, or most of the other so-called sexual variations for that matter. …Children are usually described as natural sexual beings and erotic stimulation and sex-play are seen as beneficial to their healthy development.」
[ https://docx2.com/wp-content/uploads/Are-Any-of-the-Pharaphilias-in-DSM-Mental-Disorders_.pdf 2023-05-14 ]
「Like humans but unlike chimps and most other animals, bonobos separate sex from reproduction. They seem to treat sex as a pleasurable activity, and they rely on it as a sort of social glue, to make or break all sorts of relationships. 'Ancestral humans behaved like this,' proposes Frans de Waal, an ethologist at the Yerkes Regional Primate Research Center at Emory University. 'Later, when we developed the family system, the use of sex for this sort of purpose became more limited, mainly occurring within families [i.e., incest]. A lot of the things we see, like pedophilia and homosexuality, may be leftovers that some now consider unacceptable in our particular society.' 」[…but culture is in a constant state of flux, and what was considered OK before seems to eventually come back into vogue…]
[ https://www.discovermagazine.com/mind/casual-sex-play-common-among-bonobos 2023-05-14 ]

External source definitions …excluding politically incorrect concepts and other meanings deemed offensive today; may include extended definitions, euphemisms, and mnemonics)
Chinese: to add; to increase; to replenish
Japanese EDRDG: annexed, accompany, marry, suit, meet, satisfy, attach, append, garnish, imitate
Unihan extended: append, add to; increase

Used within names (nanori)
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